First and foremost, I love being an educator. I decided when I was in elementary school that teaching was what I wanted to do with my life. I also wanted to be a fashion designer, a singer, and an actress; teaching was always on the top of my list, though.
I have taught for 7 years. I returned to the school from which I graduated many years ago. Walking down the halls during my first couple of years, I was fill with a variety of emotions. There is one stop that alumni refer to as The Indian Tile. Each time I would cross that section, an area where many of us would meet up between classes, I felt like I was being transported to the past.
I was an academically advanced student and I was raise with very high morals. Yet, I became a state ward who did not have any regard for my future.
Despite the best attempts by my parents, I had serious behavior and mood disturbances throughout junior high and high school. After trying every intervention possible, I had come to a place of potential legal trouble and/or serious physical injury. By 10th grade, there was nothing anyone could do to stop me from "going 100 miles per hour towards a concrete wall," as my mother would say. She mostly likely suffered the most because she could not save me from myself.
I wasn't a drug user, I wasn't a thief, and I wasn't promiscuous (although, all those rumors followed me throughout high school). I was angry and very defiant; it sounds so simple and easy to handle, but it certainly was not for those that tried to help me. I couldn't control my rage and anyone was a potential victim of a blow-up or a fight. I lived for picking fights during those days for the slightest offense, even if I knew that I wasn't going to "win." With what we as a society now know, one could say that I was a bully. It can also be argued that I was teenager with long-standing post-traumatic stress, anxiety, and clinical depression. Anger and depression was all that I felt for many years; the only way that I knew how to cope with my "diagnoses" was to lash out with vicious verbal and physical attacks.
I can never apologize enough to the people who I unjustly hurt.
As a teacher, I have seen children who truly know what trauma and suffering is in their young lives. While most parents seem to do the best that they can, there are always those that abuse and/or neglect the needs of their children.
My school has many problems, but the lack of security at home and the amplified rate of "fight or flight" is a major factor. In fact, school serves as a safe haven for many kids.
The fact is that our schools are not going to have great change until the community rallies together to bring about change in our neighborhoods.
Sadly, the socioeconomic struggles have bled over to the schools. The two schools in this video are within walking distance from another. It was said that the "lesser school" mentioned was said to be transformed into a similiar school to the "nicer one." There have been changes that have occured within our district since that was stated and I am holding faith that all students will recieve a "fair and equitable" education regardless of any behavioral or socioeconomical struggles.
I never planned to be
the mother of an only child. In fact, I had planned to have three children: two boys
and a girl. The boys were going to be Joshua and Jacob; the baby girl was going
to be Elizabeth Ann.
Life never goes as planned.
I spent the first six months
of my pregnancy terrified that I
was going to have a little girl. Despite being
the oldest of three girls, I was certain that I
would not know how to raise one (especially, if she behaved like I did as a
teenager).
You can see the trouble on my face at 17.
Mothers often get those odd "mommy senses" and I
knew that the child in my belly was not a Joshua. The night before the
ultrasound to determine the sex, "Danny's Song" by Loggins and
Messina. Upon hearing the following verse,
I began to weep in the car:
"Pisces, Virgo rising is
a very good sign,
Strong and kind,
And the little boy is mine.
Now I see a family where the
once was none.
Now we've just begun.
Yeah, we're gonna fly to the
sun."
It was mostly hormonal,
I know. However,
there was an overwhelming sense of love while his dad and I sat in the car
and sang along with the song. We were also broke, so that hit home quite a bit.
We already knew that our child was going to be a Pisces (although, he just
missed Virgo rising and was a Pisces, Gemini rising for those that believe that
matters). It was time to figure out a boy's
name...just in case.
The doctor confirmed that I
was carrying a little boy the next day. He was named Michael. I relaxed at the thoughts of frogs and Tonka trucks in
place of bows and tea parties. I still figured that a little princess would
come into my life some day.
I have no idea how they could tell.
Again, life never goes as planned.
I am now officially the "ONE AND DONE" mom. I am perfectly content with that title, but
what I worry about is the dreaded
"Baby Boy/Peter Pan" syndrome.
I have been married twice,
and both of my ex-husbands were
only children. My beloved aunt was also a "ONE AND DONE" to an only child. Ex #1 was raised by a single
mom,
Roo's Dad = Ex #1
Ex# 2 was by a single mom turned military wife, and my cousin was raised by a military wife. All
three scenarios created an environment
where the mother was primary adult. Each mother (and I say this with all the
love in the world) was on some level
overbearing, overprotective, and/or overly involved. All of them love their
sons tremendously and did whatever they thought would be best for each child in
their own way.
While I have nothing negative
to say about these three men as adults, I
can confirm that they all struggled to overcome the "Baby Boy/Peter
Pan" syndrome. In fact, I am not
sure that my evil ginger cousin has
outgrown it, but I will give him the benefit of
the doubt.
Evil Ginger/Only Child/Cousin
None of their mothers wanted their sons to have periods in
their adult life of immaturity and co-dependency. It happened. I had heard the
motivational speaker Andy Andrews state that parents should not be trying to raise good kids, but rather great adults. Having
grown up in Little Rock, I was well aware of the philosophy of Catholic High
School for Boys; their goal was to help create healthy men, husbands, and
fathers. My momma-mission was similar.
So, what am I doing
that my aunt and my two ex-mother-in-laws did to create Baby Boys/Peter Pans?
Too BLASTED much. Too over-protective/over-bearing/overly
involved? Take your pick. There is such a
thin line that it is hard to say.
My wonderful aunt
always said, “I know that kids can do things for themselves, but why should
they?” She and my father how a major disagreement because I was capable of making my own breakfast when I was four years old. She thought that I should have a freshly
made breakfast; whereas my single father felt
that climbing on the counter and making a bowl of cereal was sufficient. As
much as I loved the attention that my aunt bestowed upon me, scaling the counter was always fun.
My son is only 7, but
he prefers fantasy to known reality. He also states that he, "never wants
to grow up." Sigh.
I stay torn between
"letting a kid be a kid" and pushing him towards independence. As a
newly single mom, my perspective has
started to changed. In the adjustments that have had to occur, I have had to reevaluate who I am as a mom. I do not have the luxury of creating the
"perfectly magical" childhood that I so desperately want to give him.
On a side note, Bunmi Laditan published a fantastic article about
all the insane things that moms today are doing to provide that for their
children, even though it isn't necessary for a happy childhood. It is titled “I am Done Making My Kid's Childhood Magical” and it is worth the read!!!
Both articles provide insight that is helpful to most parents.
Using Caprino's 7 Behavior Traits as a guide, I am going to face
the hard reality of how my actions
as a single mom of impact my only child and his development into a productive adults.
1. We don’t let our children
experience risk
Roo is a scaredy
cat! His father and I were both dare devils, so it has been frustrating to
watch him resist doing fun things. While he is improving, he still has break downs over new things. This may be because he was a little too young
and unprepared when I took him on a
Tilt-a-Whirl. In fact, he says that ride ruined the State Fair forever.
I have been one of the
worst about letting him experience risk. I
am a worry wart. While I did not go crazy
baby-proofing everything completely, I
certainly monitored him continuously. This never stopped. Infants and toddlers need much monitoring, but at some point between then and now, I should have at least let him go to other rooms by himself for more than three nano-seconds. When I started trying to create an environment of independence a year or so
ago, I was met with great resistance.
In
fact, he still wants me to brush my teeth with him. At his father's house, he is
very independent. Welcome to a mommy-created problem.
2. We rescue too quickly
Boy, howdy!!! I was
always pretty good about telling him to "shake it off" when there was
a minor injury. I am, sadly, very weak when it comes to any perceived
unfairness dealt to him by his
teachers, other adults, and older children. As an educator, I KNOW BETTER!!! I have been on the other end of that conference table, but it doesn't stop the "Momma Bear" from
defending her "precious little angel" who could not have possibly done anything wrong.
I have worked on this for
about a year, too. I discovered
that "precious little angel" told a nun at his school that I was "too
poor" to give him money for the book
fair. She responded by sending me the
nicest letter that not only offered prayer, but financial assistance.
The devil
was ALIVE AND WELL
when I read that
letter from that nun because, in reality, he lost the option to
participate in the book fair because of his behavior, not money.
As for the older and meaner kids, I still find myself infuriate
with parents who don’t notice that their
children are little jerks. “Boys will be boys” does not work when your child is
3 years older, 20 pounds heavier, and at
least 6 inches taller. This always makes
for tense situations on the playground. I
look like an overprotective child of a mama’s boy
and I view them as irresponsible for
their budding bully.
3. We rave too easily
I don't subscribe to the idea
that "every child gets a trophy" philosophy. In fact, I think that is utter garbage.
Here I
am, the mother that consistently praises
every little thing that her child does. I could
psycho-babble many reasons why I do this based on my childhood, but my
childhood insecurities should not be overcompensated for in my own child. At
this rate, his head will be so inflated by the time he is 10 that I will be
required to hire a demolition team to get his head out of the door.
Below is the link that will take you to the Prezi where you will find your general information and specific information for each assigned group. Hop on your Tardis and discover a different time and place.
All articles have headlines that capture the reader\'s attention and accurately describe the content. All articles have a byline. All graphics have captions that adequately describe the people and action in the graphic.
All articles have headlines that accurately describe the content. All articles have a byline. All graphics have captions.
Most articles have headlines that accurately describe the content. All articles have a byline. Most graphics have captions.
Articles are missing bylines OR many articles do not have adequate headlines OR many graphics do not have captions.
Layout - Columns
Columns are neatly typed in the \"justified\" type style. There are adequate and consistent \"gutters\" between all columns and articles. A glance at the newpaper makes you think \"professional.\"
Columns are neatly typed. There are adequate and consistent \"gutters\" between all columns and articles. A glance at the newpaper makes you think \" fairly professional.\"
Columns are typed. There are adequate \"gutters\" between most columns and articles. It is easy to read, but looks somewhat nonprofessional.
Columns are not neatly typed and/or \"gutters\" are not adequate, so newspaper is somewhat difficult to read.
Knowledge Gained
All students in the group can accurately answer all questions related to a) stories in the newspaper and b) technical processes used to create the newspaper.
All students in the group can accurately answer most questions related to a) stories in the newspaper and b) technical processes used to create the newspaper.
Most students in the group can accurately answer most questions related to a) stories in the newspaper and b) technical processes used to create the newspaper.
Several students in the group appear to have little knowledge about the facts and the technical processes used for the newspaper.
Spelling and Proofreading
No spelling or grammar errors remain after one or more people (in addition to the typist) read and correct the newspaper.
No more than a couple of spelling or grammar errors remain after one or more people (in addition to the typist) read and correct the newspaper.
No more than 3 spelling or grammar errors remain after one or more people (in addition to the typist) read and correct the newspaper.
Several spelling or grammar errors remain in the final copy of the newspaper.
Articles - Purpose
90-100% of the articles establish a clear purpose in the lead paragraph and demonstrate a clear understanding of the topic.
85-89% of the articles establish a clear purpose in the lead paragraph and demonstrate a clear understanding of the topic.
75-84% of the articles establish a clear purpose in the lead paragraph and demonstrate a clear understanding of the topic.
Less than 75% of the articles establish a clear purpose in the lead paragraph and demonstrate a clear understanding of the topic.
Articles - Supporting Details
The details in the articles are clear, effective, and vivid 80-100% of the time.
The details in the articles are clear and pertinent 90-100% of the time.
The details in the articles are clear and pertinent 75-89% of the time.
The details in more than 25% of the articles are neither clear nor pertinent.
Graphics
Graphics are in focus, are well-cropped and are clearly related to the articles they accompany.
Graphics are in focus and are clearly related to the articles they accompany.
80-100% of the graphics are clearly related to the articles they accompany.
More than 20% of the graphics are not clearly related to the articles OR no graphics were used.
Articles - Interest
The articles contain facts, figures, and/or word choices that make the articles exceptionally interesting to readers.
The articles contain facts, figures, and/or word choices that make the articles interesting to readers.
The article contains some facts or figures but is marginally interesting to read.
The article does not contain facts or figures that might make it interesting to read.
Editorials - Worthwhile
The information was accurate and there was a clear reason for including the editorial in the newspaper.
The information was accurate and there was a fairly good reason for including the editorial in the newspaper.
The information was occasionally inaccurate or misleading, but there was a clear reason for including the editorial in the newspaper.
The information was typically inaccurate, misleading or libelous.
Use of Primary Sources
Reading of primary source material was thorough.
Reading of primary source material was fairly thorough.
Reading of primary source material was incomplete.
Each section in the brochure has a clear beginning, middle, and end.
Almost all sections of the brochure have a clear beginning, middle and end.
Most sections of the brochure have a clear beginning, middle and end.
Less than half of the sections of the brochure have a clear beginning, middle and end.
Writing - Grammar
There are no grammatical mistakes in the brochure.
There are no grammatical mistakes in the brochure after feedback from an adult.
There are 1-2 grammatical mistakes in the brochure even after feedback from an adult.
There are several grammatical mistakes in the brochure even after feedback from an adult.
Spelling & Proofreading
No spelling errors remain after one person other than the typist reads and corrects the brochure.
No more than 1 spelling error remains after one person other than the typist reads and corrects the brochure.
No more than 3 spelling errors remain after one person other than the typist reads and corrects the brochure.
Several spelling errors in the brochure.
Writing - Vocabulary
The authors correctly use several new words and define words unfamiliar to the reader.
The authors correctly use a few new words and define words unfamiliar to the reader.
The authors try to use some new vocabulary, but may use 1-2 words incorrectly.
The authors do not incorporate new vocabulary.
Writing - Mechanics
Capitalization and punctuation are correct throughout the brochure.
Capitalization and punctuation are correct throughout the brochure after feedback from an adult.
There are 1-2 capitalization and/or punctuation errors in the brochure even after feedback from an adult.
There are several capitalization or punctuation errors in the brochure even after feedback from an adult.
Attractiveness & Organization
The brochure has exceptionally attractive formatting and well-organized information.
The brochure has attractive formatting and well-organized information.
The brochure has well-organized information.
The brochure\'s formatting and organization of material are confusing to the reader.
Sources
Careful and accurate records are kept to document the source of 95-100% of the facts and graphics in the brochure.
Careful and accurate records are kept to document the source of 94-85% of the facts and graphics in the brochure.
Careful and accurate records are kept to document the source of 84-75% of the facts and graphics in the brochure.
Sources are not documented accurately or are not kept on many facts and graphics.
Content - Accuracy
All facts in the brochure are accurate.
99-90% of the facts in the brochure are accurate.
89-80% of the facts in the brochure are accurate.
Fewer than 80% of the facts in the brochure are accurate.
Knowledge Gained
All students in the group can accurately answer all questions related to facts in the brochure and to technical processes used to create the brochure.
All students in the group can accurately answer most questions related to facts in the brochure and to technical processes used to create the brochure.
Most students in the group can accurately answer most questions related to facts in the brochure and to technical processes used to create the brochure.
Several students in the group appear to have little knowledge about the facts or technical processes used in the brochure.
Graphics/Pictures
Graphics go well with the text and there is a good mix of text and graphics.
Graphics go well with the text, but there are so many that they distract from the text.
Graphics go well with the text, but there are too few and the brochure seems \"text-heavy\".
Graphics do not go with the accompanying text or appear to be randomly chosen.
The majority of your exam will be
formatted in the PARCC format. You will have passages to analyze. Each question
will be in two parts. The first part will pertain to a literary device listed
below and the second part will consist of four options to best justify your
answer for the first part.
You will
need to be able to understand the following words as they will appear in the
prompts:
üLITERARY DEVICES (also known as
literary terms and literary techniques)
üANALYZE
üCOMPARE
üCONTRAST
üCRITICIZE
üDEFINE
üDESCRIBE
üDISCUSS
üEVALUATE
üIDENTIFY
üILLUSTRATE (Not the drawing
definition)
üINTERPRET
üOUTLINE
üPERSUADE
üPROVE
üSTATE
üSUMMARIZE
üPARAPHRASE
üCITE
üJUSTIFY
üTEXTUAL SUPPORT
üANNOTATE (ANNOTATION OR CLOSE READING
STRATEGIES)
You must
be able to identify, define, interpret, and support your argument for each of
the following terms (pages 979 – 991):
ØALLITERATION
ØALLUSION
ØASSONANCE
ØAUTOBIOGRAPHY
ØCHARACTER
oDIRECT
CHARACTERIZATION
oINDIRECT
CHARACTERIZATION
ØCONFLICT
oINTERNAL
oEXTERNAL
ØCONNOTATION
ØDENOTATION
ØDIALECT
ØDIALOGUE
ØDICTION
ØFORMAL ESSAY
ØFIGURE OF SPEECH
(ALSO KNOWN AS FIGURATIVE LANGUAGE)
ØFLASHBACK
ØFLASH-FORWARD
ØFOIL
ØFORESHADOWING
ØGENRE
ØHYPERBOLE
ØIDIOM
ØIMAGERY
ØIRONY
oVERBAL IRONY
oSITUATIONAL IRONY
oDRAMATIC IRONY
ØMETAPHOR
ØMOOD
ØNARRATION
ØNARRATOR
ØNONFICTION
ØNOVEL
ØONOMATOPOEIA
ØPERSONIFICATION
ØPLOT
oEXPOSITION
oRISING ACTION
oCLIMAX
oFALLING ACTION
oRESOLUTION
ØPOINT OF VIEW
oOMNISCIENT
oTHIRD-PERSON-LIMITED
oFIRST-PERSON
oCREDIBLE/RELIABLE
oUNRELIABLE
ØPROTAGONIST
ØANTAGONIST
ØPUN
ØSETTING
ØSHORT STORY
ØSIMILE
ØSPEAKER
ØSTYLE
ØSUSPENSE
ØSYMBOL
ØTHEME
ØTONE
ØVOICE
You will be writing two essays. You
will need to be able to demonstrate your knowledge of basic components of an
essay. You will need to be able to discuss literary elements from the literary
pieces and cite textual support in MLA format to justify your argument. You must be very mindful to use a formal voice
with correct spelling, grammar, mechanics, and conventions.
Essay
Questions (written in MLA format with a Works Cited Page)
1.Determine
what mood and tone are created through use of imagery in Elie Wiesel’s Night. Explain the importance of mood
and tone in a non-fiction novel. Justify your claim with textual support.
2.Examine
the symbolism of fire, technology, and books in Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury. Interpret each symbol and analyze
how the symbols collectively represent an oppressive government and dystopian
society.
Thetextintroducesacompellingclaim thatis clearlyarguableandtakes
a purposefulpositiononanissue.The texthasastructureandorganization thatis carefullycraftedtosupportthe
claim.
Thetextintroducesapreciseclaim thatis clearlyarguableandtakes an identifiable position on
an issue. The text has an effectivestructure and organizationthatis aligned withthe
claim.
Thetextintroducesaclaimthat is
arguableandtakes aposition.
Thetexthasastructureand organizationthatis
aligned with theclaim.
The text contains an
unidentifiable claimorvagueposition.Thetexthas limitedstructureandorganization.
Development:
The text provides sufficientdata and evidence tobackuptheclaimaswell
asaconclusionthatsupportsthe argument.
Thetextprovidesconvincingand relevantdataandevidence tobackup the claim and
effectivelyaddressescounterclaims.Theconclusion strengthenstheclaimandevidence.
The text provides sufficientand relevantdataandevidence to backuptheclaimandaddresses
counterclaimsfairly. Theconclusion
effectivelyreinforces the claim and evidence.
The text provides sufficientdata andevidence tobackuptheclaim andaddressescounterclaims.The conclusiontiestotheclaimand evidence.
Thetextprovidesdataand evidence thatattemptstobackup theclaimandunclearlyaddressescounterclaimsorlackscounterclaims. Theconclusionmerelyrestates
the position.
Thetextcontainslimiteddataand evidence related
totheclaimand counterclaimsorlackscounter-claims. Thetextmay fail toconcludethe argumentorposition.
Audience:
Thetextanticipatestheaudience’s
knowledgelevelandconcernsabout theclaim.Thetextaddressesthe specific audience’s needs.
Thetextconsistentlyaddressesthe audience’sknowledgeleveland concernsabouttheclaim.Thetext addresses the
specific needs of the audience.
Thetextanticipatestheaudience’s
knowledgelevelandconcernsabout theclaim.Thetextaddressesthe specific needs of the
audience.
Thetextstrategicallyuseswords, phrases, andclausestolinkthemajor sectionsofthetext.Thetextexplains
therelationshipsbetweentheclaim andreasonsaswell
astheevidence. Thetextstrategicallylinks the counterclaimstotheclaim.
Thetextskillfullyuseswords, phrases, andclausestolinkthe major sectionsofthetext.Thetext identifies the relationship between theclaimandreasonsaswell
asthe evidence. The text effectivelylinks thecounterclaimstotheclaim.
Thetextuseswords,phrases, and clausestolinkthemajor sections
ofthetext.Thetextconnectsthe claimandreasons.Thetextlinks thecounterclaimstotheclaim.
Thetextcontainslimitedwords, phrases, andclausestolinkthe major sectionsofthetext.Thetext attemptstoconnecttheclaimand reasons.
Thetextpresentsanappropriateand formal,objectivetone.Thetext demonstratesstandardEnglish conventionsofusageandmechanics along with discipline specific requirements
(i.e. MLA, APA, etc.).